However, it is not uncommon to find young people these days, who have had their whole lives planned out for them, or feel as though they lack the passion or desire to make unconventional decisions to step out of their comfort zones, whether in business or in life. A lot of university students have only had lives that consisted of studying, with a goal to go on to do conventional office work. Yet, in the eyes of Matthew, such an attitude is a huge misuse of the glory years. “As a student, you don't have any burdens, so go ahead and do it, there is nothing to regret and there’s nothing you have to lose.”
One of the major concerns of Hong Kong youths these days is whether they can afford an apartment. To Matthew who grew up in Switzerland, this is a large cultural difference, “My classmates weren’t thinking about buying an apartment,” he says with a tone of slight disbelief. “In Hong Kong, you need to buy an apartment for the next step of your career. Whereas in Europe it’s really about following your dreams and doing what you want to do. All the other things will come later at a certain stage.” It is this world view and diverse cultural understanding that he possesses that allows for him to be bold and make risky decisions. He also advises university students to go out and explore the world, “Think a bit more outside what the city can offer you. It helps to travel to other cultures and cities.” This allows for young people to be exposed to different cultural mindsets and perhaps even adopting it. While Matthew understands that university students are concerned about their finances, he believes that “there is always a way to help you achieve what you want. But at the end of the day, you need to put an effort into it.”
Matthew’s story exemplifies the importance of taking control of your life. “These days, a lot of people expect that everything will come to their lap, that everything will be thought up for them. But it’s not, it’s your own life, so take it in your own hands!” he exclaims. So, to those who are afraid to step out of their box, who have rigidly stuck to convention, just go ahead and try it out; do the thing that makes you happy. “If you don't try it out, you will never know if you succeed or not, you will never know if you like it or not,” he remarks matter-of-factly, “At the same time, understand that everything has its own price. For instance, to attain my goal, I need to work at a job I may not exactly find pleasure in. Yet, I know that I am still striving towards a better purpose personally.”
There are sacrifices one has to make to actualise their dreams, but as long as you trust yourself, believe in your decisions and take control of your life, you will find your path eventually.